Hi J, I'm also a J! I understand your reasoning and that you would have anxiety. oh, that person doesn't like your black hair.. and that person doesn't appreciate yourblack Jean's with holedand chains. hmm. I guess they dont need to wear them, then. As if! Ok. So..forget people who dont get your style fashion. Stay TRUE to your own choices sexuality wise.. and any other wise;) you're beautiful and you know that. (at least tell yourself that in the bathroom mirror every day! How kind of you to post all the stuff up there.... you realize that you are helping people with your same issue just, by, telling your story.big squeezy hugs to you, (unless you're wearing spikes )..love from j to j ♡